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The Body Connects to the Mind

Do you feel stuck?  Are you ready for some unique insights?

In my coaching and consulting practice I use different assessments, each designed to measure something specific.  The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator measures one’s preferences in fundamental daily action.  The FourSight measures where you like to play in the  creative process.  And on and on.   There are hundreds of assessments, each with varying degrees of research behind them.

A new tool that I am really excited about is called the Focus Energy Balance Indicator™.  We just call it the FEBI.

The FEBI comes from the work of four remarkable women.  Dr. Josephine Rathbone, a kinesiologist working the the thirties,  identified four basic patterns of movement and established that certain patterns are easier for us than others.  Thirty years later Dr. Valerie Hunt validated the patterns with sophisticated lab equipment.  Betsy Wetzig, a dancer, connected the patterns to personality and called them “Coordination Patterns”.  Dr. Ginny Whitelaw developed the instrument to capitalize on the theory and research.  If you’re as fascinated as I am by this work checkout her book, Move to Greatness.

Physiologically, there are four fundamental patterns of movement (did I tell you I have an undergraduate degree in Exercise Science?).   These physical patterns connect to our temperaments:

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The Driver (Thrust pattern)

People who thrive in the Driver pattern love to direct and tend to stay focused on the issue at hand.  They challenge ideas and enjoy being the winner.

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The Organizer (Shape pattern)

People who thrive in the Organizer pattern tend to be steady, disciplined and enjoy taking one step at a time.

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The Collaborator (Swing pattern)

People who thrive in the Collaborator pattern like to have fun.  They are engaging influencers and are comfortable with improvising solutions.

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The Visionary (Hang pattern)

People who thrive in the Visionary pattern like novelty.  They are open to new ideas, let go of the status quo and enjoy thinking big.

Fascinating, Maggie.   So what?

Perhaps you’ve noticed that you are really natural and effective in some activities.  And there are other things you do poorly or never seem to get to?  Chances are that you thrive when you are in your “Home Pattern”.

For example, I have client who is an Idea Machine.  She thrives in ambiguity and she is extremely social.  Her dominant patterns are Swing (Collaborator–very playful, comfortable with give-and-take).  But her inability to put some discipline to her ideas keeps her from leveraging her talents.

Another client is an Execution Machine.  He runs his unit, his life like an efficient factory and nothing slips through the cracks.  But he has trouble partnering with leaders in other business units and can’t move to a more strategic point-of-view.

Both of these people want to capitalize on their strengths and they know, ino order to do that, they need to become more versatile.  In another post I’ll describe how the insights from the FEBI and some enhancements to a personal practice is helping them create some breakthroughs.

You Can Have It All

Recently I was coaching a new manager at a large corporation.  The promotion was a big stretch and she was peddling hard to keep up.  She and her husband were also parenting  two pre-schoolers.  She was alternately overwhelmed and excited.  Toward the end of the session she wistfully added that it had been years since she had picked up her paintbrush.  I understood her nostalgia.  Flash back 15 years and that was me.  I had a full-time job, I was working on my master’s degree and we were adjusting to our newly divorced family.   I careened from one work project to another and one paper to another.  There was barely time to feed my excellent children (they will tell you they fed themselves most of the time).  There was no time for creative expression.

If this sounds familiar I extend the same words of comfort to you as I did to my young coaching client:

You can have it all…..eventually.

BIC041My wise friend, Janet, is fond of reassuring me that, “Life is long”.  She doesn’t mean that I can squander my time unconsciously.  She means to reassure me that there will be time for the important things.  And I believe she is right.

Eventually, I did graduate and life settled down and now I have multiple creative pursuits.  That young manager will return to her painting when her job is more familiar, when her children are older.  Or she will find another outlet for her creativity.

I know this because it has been my privilege to find role models who are proofs of the concept.  Diane Lou is one dear friend who is having the unexpected time of her life.  On her blog she writes of her art and delight in learning new things.

So, please stop beating yourself up because you haven’t yet written that novel, started that blog, sewn that purse, finished that woodworking project, picked up your guitar…..

You WILL…or find something even better.

Ten Commandments for Creating

My parents were from the Old Country and devoutly religious.  I was raised as a Roman Catholic and I still take opportunities to walk into a cathedral, listen to organ music and inhale the incense.  Ahhh, I love  the smell of Frankincense on a Feast Day.  If pushed I can probably still recite the Ten Commandments.   They serve as an important and enduring moral compass for a people.

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I like the idea of a set of Principles to guide behavior but I never liked all the ‘Thou SHALT NOTS’.  So here is my own list of  ‘THOU SHALTS” for my creative process.

I. I shall take my creativity seriously enough to fund it with time and money.

II. I shall seek out kindred spirits who can teach and support me.

III. I shall practice ‘respect for the newborn’ and give myself permission to be less than good as I begin a new activity.

IV.  I shall cultivate habits that support my creativity.

V. I shall recognize that creating is not a linear process and appreciate that I may not always be in control.

VI. I shall enjoy myself as often as possible because happiness contributes to my creativity.

VII. I shall recognize that showing up is my work to do (not letting myself off with excuses that aren’t true).

VIII. I shall speak to myself as kindly as I would to a dear friend who is trying something new and unfamiliar.

IX. I shall allow myself to be inspired by other creative people knowing that there is an audience for everyone.

X. I shall stand in awe.  Creativity is everyday.  Creativity is divine.

Now, think about your own values around the Creative Process.  What might be your Ten Commandments for Creating?